I Hate My Marrige But Love My Wife

January 29, 2009 by Christian Bloggers  
Filed under Christian Marriage

If you hate your marriage but love your wife, you are so in a good position for restoration. Ask yourself why do you hate you marriage. And deep down you know why. You know exactly why. But the questions becomes if you are willing to lay it out and deal with it. Silence kills marriages and a lot of men suffer in silence. Sometimes it is because their wives are so strong willed that they rather not deal with the drama. Other times the wives are so precious they hate to have to speak of a fault. Then there is everything in between. But God intended you to love your marriage and make it the biggest playground for love on the planet. So perhaps if you ask God how to approach he will give the insight and you can resolve your marriage and still love your wife. Why don’t you ask God and trust him? He knows your wife better than you do. Then ask him to work on you. Say God what am I doing that makes my marriage unbearable, could you change me so that we can make it because I love her. What do think God is going to do, not answer that prayer? Of course not, he will speak to you heart and you will know it. Don’t give up. Communicate, show love and affection, start doing things together, take the TV out of your bedroom, find ways to connect. It will probably be difficult at first but once trust is restored it will get better. Let her know you love but really would like to make things better.

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