Divorced Miss My Wife

Hang in there. It still may not be too late to restore your relationship. Let’s look at what if its not to late. If it is not to late then self evaluation and owning up to your part of the failure in the relations could begin a road to recovery. I think some relatinships could be restored if after the divorce and you still love them, you would just let them know. They could be feeling the same way. I personally believe that a lot of people really love their spouse but they are so sick of junk in the relationship and the hurt and the control that they end it. But if you read my post then you know my position and that is, what if you just dealt with the junk. I mean really deal with it, without screaming and yelling and biting each others heads off. What if you just sat down and said, look, I love you but you are driving me insane, but I don’t want to loose you. What can we do to make this work. Anybody heard Rhianna’s song, I Hate to Love You. It is powerful and expresses how people are really feeling. God is there to help relationships, he will get involved but the couple will have to humble themselves and pray.

Now what if it really is too late. Give yourself time to grieve and then move on. If it was absolutely miserable to be with them, then when you leave them don’t bring that misery, because then your divorce would have been pointless. Seek God for new start and healing. He will make it happen. God bless you. See my about page for resources.