Can you solve The Marriage Dilemma?

Marriage is a dilemma.   If one wants to save money and other wants to spend, there has to be one winner and one loser.  There is no way both partners can win.  If one hates to travel and the other loves to travel, it’s a dilemma.  Can’t do both.    If one partner likes to keep family matters private and the other likes to be open about things, someone has to lose.

The real problem is that the loser usually makes the winner pay a price.  That way both partners lose.  The loser on a core issue may complain, criticize or portray his or her partner as a control freak to others.  This creates a new set of problems, of hurt feelings and broken trust.

No one  feels loved when this cycle is happening.  You need to learn how to solve The Marriage Dilemma.

Go to www.marriagedilemma.com and find a Christian-based answer that worked for my wife and I.  I believe it can work for any couple who is committed to marriage for life and who is open to a spiritually anchored, Christian solution.