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Podcast notes for May 31st, 2009 “What’s love got to do with it?” my interview with Jeff Jobb.  Podcast #053109

Direct download of today’s show:  http://www.takehimwithyou.com/podcast/053109whatslove.mp3

We start off with the intro and then a promo for Treks in Sci Fi with Rico Dostie.  http://www.treksinscifi.com 

RICK’s HOUSE
This time Rick’s house is up on You Tube check it out here:

I talk about social networks that I am part of.  Here are the links:
http://www.myspace.com/moyer777
http://moyer777.wordpress.com
Twitter-  @moyer777
On Facebook, search for Rick Moyer-  there are a few, so find me, the right one.

Bought a cool little netbook, but it broke.  So another one is coming I will do a review on Youtube.

My Youtube chanell is http://www.youtube.com/rickmoyer777

Here is Nathan and Ivy making Thai Salad Rolls–

I then play Knights of the Guild Podcast promo.  http://knightsoftheguild.podbean.com

WORDS OF WISDOM 

1st John Chapter 3
 ¹ What marvelous love the Father has extended to us! Just look at it—we’re called children of God! That’s who we really are. But that’s also why the world doesn’t recognize us or take us seriously, because it has no idea who he is or what he’s up to.

 ^2-3But friends, that’s exactly who we are: children of God. And that’s only the beginning. Who knows how we’ll end up! What we know is that when Christ is openly revealed, we’ll see him—and in seeing him, become like him. All of us who look forward to his Coming stay ready, with the glistening purity of Jesus’ life as a model for our own.

 ^4-6All who indulge in a sinful life are dangerously lawless, for sin is a major disruption of God’s order. Surely you know that Christ showed up in order to get rid of sin. There is no sin in him, and sin is not part of his program. No one who lives deeply in Christ makes a practice of sin.

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FOOD FOR THOUGHT

I interview my friend Jeff Jobb about how he grew up and his thoughts on God and God’s love.

Jeff shares about his Spiritual gifts, his upbringing, rock n roll and more. 

Jeff went to a private school that was run by monks and brothers for a couple of years.  He also attended a protestant school as well, he talks about the difference between the two.

During the interview I play a couple more promos for other podcasts including WAFFLE ON http://waffleon.podbean.com  and THE ANOMALY PODCAST http://www.anomalypodcast.com 

To find out more about Jeff visit his websites here:
http://www.jeffjobb.com  Jeff’s blog
http://www.jedijeff.ca  Cool collectible site
http://www.jedijeff.ca/wijb  what is in Jeff’s basement?
http://www.champodcast.com  Jeff’s racing site.

I end the podcast by praying for Jeff and then playing a cool song from the band Disciple from their CD “This may sting a bit”  the song is called:
I just know

Next week is part one of “Surviving Churchianity”  an interview with Dave and Jen about the pros and cons of church and experiencing Jesus in everyday life.

Today’s direct download:  http://www.takehimwithyou.com/podcast/053109whatslove.mp3

This is either the most beautiful human relationship I’ve ever had… or the biggest deception I’ve fallen victim to.

Man.

the hooligans cira july 2008

Today I heard an excellent sermon on John 16:25-33 “the overcomer” by our Senior Pastor Jim Cannon.  It was an excellent sermon that I will be downloading to my ipod (go to tools for growth)  This sermon really squeezed my sponge (that one was for you ZO).  While it was not a sermon on biblical motherhood/womanhood, it really made me think about my attitude in motherhood.

I am going to, with prayer, get the notion out o my head that motherhood = anxiety.  I love my children and have a faith in God.  That being said I thought that it was the norm to have anxiety live in anxiety in regards to my children.

My head filled with frenetic worrisome questions.  Are my children getting the right nutrition? Are they growing to be nice and responsible people?  Will they be happy and successful in their lives (not talking about worldly success counted in money)?  and, of course, the big question: Am I raising them to be children of faith.  A faith and love for God, and for the sacrifice that He made at the cross, that they won’t desert as they grow older?

Ironically all of this energy exerted on being anxious regarding them  isn’t helping them to grow in the areas I am concerned about.  In fact having a tense, anxious mum is thwarting all of my good intentions.  Working myself into a tizzy about their future happiness and salvation isn’t helping?  Who knew that their salvation isn’t dependent on my works!!!

John 14:6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Nowhere does it say that the way to God is dependent on me or my will!  That does not mean that I have a get out of jail free card regarding raising my children in a godly manner.  In fact the truth is  quite the opposite.

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go;
even when he is old he will not depart from it.

Proverbs 29:15

¹⁵ The rod and reproof give wisdom,
but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother

^{Ephesians 6:4}

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

2 timothy 3:15

and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

The Biblical exhortations to parents regarding raising our children in a way that they abide in Him are abundant.  The tricky bit for me is to not only raise my children with faith but to have faith that God is doing his part in their lives as well!

Psalm 36:7
How precious is your steadfast love, O God!The children of mankind take refuge in the shadow of your wings.

^{Matthew 6:26}-28

Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? ²⁷And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? ²⁸And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin,

^{John 16:33}

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Yes, I will have trials in this life specifically related to motherhood.  I need to intentionally pray through my anxieties.  Not to be scared of public opinion that I need such prayers.  Nor am I to fall for the lie that I don’t deserve prayer and help from God.  One of the quotes from Pastor Jim that stuck with me today is this “Jesus earned my prayers.  I am covered and clothed in the impunitive righteousness of Christ”  It is ok for me to pray for the big things, in fact I should.The good fabulous thing is this.  God may not always take away the tribulation but he will carry me through the tribulation. I will cast my fears on God, continually pray, and abide in His peace.

Romans 15:13

¹³May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.

My peace is with MY GOD!

my hooligans July 2008

the hooligans cira july 2008

Today I heard an excellent sermon on John 16:25-33 “the overcomer” by our Senior Pastor Jim Cannon.  It was an excellent sermon that I will be downloading to my ipod (go to tools for growth)  This sermon really squeezed my sponge (that one was for you ZO).  While it was not a sermon on biblical motherhood/womanhood, it really made me think about my attitude in motherhood.

I am going to, with prayer, get the notion out o my head that motherhood = anxiety.  I love my children and have a faith in God.  That being said I thought that it was the norm to have anxiety live in anxiety in regards to my children.

My head filled with frenetic worrisome questions.  Are my children getting the right nutrition? Are they growing to be nice and responsible people?  Will they be happy and successful in their lives (not talking about worldly success counted in money)?  and, of course, the big question: Am I raising them to be children of faith.  A faith and love for God, and for the sacrifice that He made at the cross, that they won’t desert as they grow older?

Ironically all of this energy exerted on being anxious regarding them  isn’t helping them to grow in the areas I am concerned about.  In fact having a tense, anxious mum is thwarting all of my good intentions.  Working myself into a tizzy about their future happiness and salvation isn’t helping?  Who knew that their salvation isn’t dependent on my works!!!

John 14:6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Nowhere does it say that the way to God is dependent on me or my will!  That does not mean that I have a get out of jail free card regarding raising my children in a godly manner.  In fact the truth is  quite the opposite.

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go;
even when he is old he will not depart from it.

Proverbs 29:15

¹⁵ The rod and reproof give wisdom,
but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother

^{Ephesians 6:4}

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

2 timothy 3:15

and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

The Biblical exhortations to parents regarding raising our children in a way that they abide in Him are abundant.  The tricky bit for me is to not only raise my children with faith but to have faith that God is doing his part in their lives as well!

Psalm 36:7
How precious is your steadfast love, O God!The children of mankind take refuge in the shadow of your wings.

^{Matthew 6:26}-28

Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? ²⁷And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? ²⁸And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin,

^{John 16:33}

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Yes, I will have trials in this life specifically related to motherhood.  I need to intentionally pray through my anxieties.  Not to be scared of public opinion that I need such prayers.  Nor am I to fall for the lie that I don’t deserve prayer and help from God.  One of the quotes from Pastor Jim that stuck with me today is this “Jesus earned my prayers.  I am covered and clothed in the impunitive righteousness of Christ”  It is ok for me to pray for the big things, in fact I should.The good fabulous thing is this.  God may not always take away the tribulation but he will carry me through the tribulation. I will cast my fears on God, continually pray, and abide in His peace.

Romans 15:13

¹³May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.

My peace is with MY GOD!

my hooligans July 2008

Whether in dance or marriage, effective communication between partners is fundamental.

A couple recently learning to dance discovered the “secret” was in the communication which comes from the connection or dance frame.

The frame is created by four points of connection between the dancing couple. When these connection points are solid and secure, better communication – and dancing – will result. The connection points create the channel through which the leader indicates the dance steps he is planning.

To keep these connection points working and the lines of communication open, both leader and follower must have the proper posture and muscle tone. Neither partner can shoulder the entire responsibility for maintaining open lines of communication; it must be a mutual endeavor.

This connection, and a unified effort to respond to the music, creates the dance. The specific steps are insignificant as long as the leader is leading, the follower is following and both are dancing to the same song.

Communication is a lifeline in a unified marriage as well. “We need to be solid together in the core of our union and let the dance flow from there,” said one partner in the couple learning to dance. “Becoming one … on the dance floor and in our unions as husband and wife … is the only way to truly be successful in either endeavor.”

Copr 2009 MarriageDance

WBCL Radio Network in Ft. Wayne, Indiana, interviewed us on Monday, May 18. It’s a  six-station network that covers Indiana and parts of Ohio and Michigan. Lynne Ford is the host of the weekly morning program, “Author, Author” that features interviews with several authors each week. Here it is! Our interview begins about 20 minutes into the program.

Setting Up Stones on WBCL

Hurray for you! The moment you decided to admit to an ungodly lifestyle the change began. Admitting a problem is the first step to overcoming it and being victorious over it. Just liek it took years to develop ungodly ways don’t expect change to be finished over night. Take time to reorganize your life and rebuild trust in the relationship with your spouse. Don’t be surprised if they reject your efforts at first. It is not because they don’t want to believe in your change, they are probably just struggling with is this change for real and for good.

Give your issues to God in a simple prayer and watch him work. It can be as simple as God I am sorry help me to change and don’t let me go back to the way I was. Then ask your spouse for forgiveness and let them know you will be seeking their help in making the changes permanent. Then everyday spend time with God – prayer, read your Bible, getting involved with godly activities and soon those old vices will no longer have any power or control over you. The Bible calls it renewing your mind. You are literally reprogramming yourself. Also forgive others that have hurt you in the past no matter what they did. Hanging on to the pain will hinder your progress. Ask God to help you to forgive and then move on.
When you look back down the road I believe you will find a restored and renewed relationship. Commune with God everyday.

Do you believe your husband?  Mine taught me an important lesson recently.  He was giving me a compliment, and I started in on the grocery list of things I am not.  My hair is graying.  I don’t come close to fitting into my wedding dress anymore.  No more pampering manicures.  Glasses instead of contact lenses.  Health struggles and various surgeries have taken their toll.  I don’t view myself as the “beautiful, bodacious brunette” of our courtship years anymore.  He made an important generalization that I think can be instructive to wives.  He suggested that if a husband shares with his wife that he thinks she is beautiful, she ought to believe it, and that it is not because she is an airbrushed vision of perfection.  It is because she is his.  His to fully delight in, to look at, to embrace.  His, “to have and to hold.”  His alone.  For the godly husband, this is paramount over anything external.  For the godly wife is the exhortation to “get it.”

When you look through “Song of Solomon,” you find lots of  “sweet nothings.”  Beautiful descriptions from a loving heart.  Lovely, loving, wooing words.  But, are they, in actuality, “nothings” (well, of course, being inspired scripture…no)?  The “strange men” (Prov 2) know how to employ words such as these to flatter and lure women.  There is power in them.

We women are continually saying we wish our husbands talked about their feelings more.  Could it be that, when they do confide in us, share a thought, make an observation, pay a compliment–we count it as “nothing”?  Do you want your husband to open up?  Then, listen.  Believe him.  Be a delight to him.

In one of my favorite old movies, “Mrs. Miniver,” Greer Garson plays a lovely wife, in character as well as appearance.  Her husband asks her one night, “Do you know, I think you are more beautiful now than when I first married you.  Could that be possible?”  Her reply was, “If you say so, darling.”  Not, “But, my hips…my crow’s feet…my [fill in the blank--even the loveliest of women knows her own flaws].  She luxuriated in the sweetness and sincerity of his devotion.

Next time your husband pays you a compliment, try saying “Why, thank you dear (honey, darling, snookums…)”.  Sincerely.  Practice in the mirror if you need to.  Do you know what it will do for you?  It will not only help you convey to him that you believe that he thinks you are beautiful, but you will begin to believe it as well, in the best sense.  And nothing is more attractive to a man than a confident (in this case, confidence from the right Source) woman.